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Queening

Posted on February 12, 2021 | by freakz

“I love the way he says my name. With the elegance and utmost respect of a King, just before he bows to his Queen.”
– M.J. Abraham

Definition

Also known as face-sitting, Queening is when a woman makes another person have mouth to genital contact with her, or mouth to anal contact, by sitting on their face.

The Fetish

When someone really wants to be dominated by having another person’s genitals shoved in their mouth, with their full weight behind it, then they are into queening. Having a dominant femme in your sexual relationship might entail you being made to breathe in and out through her vagina for a good amount of time, so it’s best to practice building your lung capacity. This can easily ride alongside a bit of an asphyxiation fetish, so it’s best to be a little careful and make sure your partner knows the signal for you needing them off of you. Queening can also be done with another person’s ass as well, where their anus is in contact with your mouth as they sit on your face. The person’s face that’s being sat upon often uses their tongue inside of the sitter to grant an orgasm to the one that’s doing the “Queening”.

What To Do

This is not an uncommon fetish at all, but involves a little more dominance than regular cunnilingus or anilingus. There are plenty of dommes out there that will gladly shove their genitals or ass on your face – and they have the experience to establish the proper signals with you to know when you can’t breathe. If you’re searching out people for this fetish there will be plenty of online discussions and adult films that involve “Queening”. Since this fetish isn’t rare at all and has plenty of interested parties, it won’t be difficult to find people that will gladly sit on your face.

Roman Showers

Posted on February 12, 2021 | by freakz

“The act of vomiting deserves your respect. It’s an orchestral event of the gut.”
– Mary Roach, Packing for Mars

Definition

Colloquially a Roman Shower is when one person expels their stomach, also called vomiting, on another person to create a form of sexual excitement and satisfaction for both parties.

The Fetish

This fetish involves one person vomiting on another person – that can be accomplished in multiple ways. Setting up an intentional play space to make the cleaning up of this fetish easier is a smart thing to plan ahead for. A Roman Shower is an act that is usually prepared for ahead of time, and it may even involve agreement around exactly what the sub involved will eat beforehand. Adding different colors to the food being ingested may add even more excitement for the person being vomited on, and that can be discussed ahead of time. This may tie in with someone wanting to see what the other person is eating, or possibly feeding them as well.

What To Do

With Roman Showers as your fetish you might not find an abundance of folks that want to participate in this without vetting them ahead of time. There are going to be online discussions where you should be able to find others with a similar interest, and they may also have suggestions for how to approach new partners about your desires. If you go to professional dungeons or talk to professional doms, you will be able to find someone that either has experience with implementing this kink, or can put you in the right direction of someone that will be able to. There are several adult films that will involve this kink, specialty magazines, and online resources to explore it further if you’re interested.

Zipper

Posted on February 12, 2021 | by freakz

“Grab this world by its clothespins, and shake it out again and again. And hop on top and take it for a spin. And when you hop off, shake it again. For this is yours.”
– Anis Mojgani, Songs From Under the River

Definition

A zipper in BDSM is a series of clothespins along a length of yarn or string that can be placed on different parts of a person’s body, then pulled off to create a variety of sensations. The removal often makes a sound reminiscent of zippers, hence the name.

The Fetish

Having a fetish with zipper play involves using groups of clothespins, or items that perform a similar function and having them clipped to different parts of your body. When the clothespins are removed from your body it will produce a different range of sensations as the pinching is removed and blood is allowed to flow freely to the space that was pinned. This fetish can involve restraints, or not, and is often implemented with other fetishes at the same time. Clothespins can be put over the tops of different outfits, or directly on the skin, and specialty ones can be used to gauge the tension involved in the pinching of skin. The dominant player could also have their sub wander around with them while clothespins or a zipper are attached to them, slowly releasing different clothespins, and possibly putting others in different places.

What To Do

If you have a budding curiosity in using a zipper or multiple clothespins, you can pursue it on your own at first to see what the sensation feels like and where you find the most enjoyable placement. There are a number of adult films that will involve “Zipper” play, and sexual intercourse is often included with the putting on, and removal, of clothespins. There will be plenty of online resources and groups where you’ll be able to discuss your love of “Zipper” play, and you’ll definitely be able to find other willing partners to participate with you. Some variation of clothespins has existed for a long time, and that means this fetish has been around for a long time as well. If a partner is into nipple clamps at all, then convincing them to use clothespins won’t be that much of a stretch.

Urtication

Posted on January 29, 2021 | by freakz

“Better be a nettle in the side of your friend than his echo.”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Definition

The urtication fetish involves using a nettle plant against your partner’s skin to sting them, or having a nettle plant used on you. Participating in such activities with a nettle plant can be referred to as nettle play.

The Fetish

Using a nettle plant to consensually sting a partner’s skin during a sexual encounter is what this fetish is all about. Using a nettle plant against another person’s skin will invoke stinging and it will leave a rash at the end. The rash in most cases is slight and not too long-lasting, but its presence and the itching involved can serve as a nice reminder for your partner. It isn’t as common of a fetish despite the fact that nettle plants grow readily around the globe. It’s not frequent to discover that a nettle plant’s sting arouses you, since you would have to first come in direct contact with the nettle plant to realize that.

What To Do

This is definitely more of a specialized kink, but the internet can still give you the chance to find opportunities to explore your nettle fetish. It’s a fairly specific preference, so that means you’ll have to ask probing questions and be direct with your online kink community. Don’t worry about what people will think of your fetish – there are plenty of other fetishes that are fairly out there! It might take you a minute to find someone with your specific love of nettle play, but searching online can still improve your chances much more than just asking around your local kink community. There’s also a range of other kinks that involving stinging with different objects, so you might be able to find common ground even with kinksters that have never experienced nettle play. Just remember that as with everything that can sting and cause a rash, you should approach nettle play with caution.

Retifism (Shoes)

Posted on January 29, 2021 | by freakz

“Sometimes comfort doesn’t matter. When a shoe is freakin’ fabulous, it may be worth a subsequent day of misery. Soak in Epsom salts and take comfort in the fact that you’re better than everyone else.”
-Clinton Kelly

Definition

The retifism fetish is defined as someone having an obsession based around shoes and footwear. Another more specific term for this fetish is altocalciphilia, which refers to an obsession with high heels.

The Fetish

There are many different forms that a shoe and footwear fetish can take. This fetish can solely involve the kind of footwear that a sexual partner is going to have on while participating in sexual activities with someone. Another form of this fetish is to have the footwear more actively used during intercourse, or during any form of BDSM play. Inserting aforementioned footwear into orifices, having it used for masturbatory methods, or using said footwear as a form of consensual punishment. High heels of different sorts are commonly used in this fetish due to their sex appeal and their versatility in causing pain to other willing participants. There can also be an oral fixation associated with a footwear fetish, where footwear my be fondled by another person’s tongue or sucked on by their mouth.

What To Do

A footwear fetish is a very common kink, with many chat groups, forums, adult films, sites, and books dedicated to it. You’ll be able to easily find others interested in your kink, whether they are interested in you wearing different footwear, or they themselves having it worn for you. Whether you are just turned on by the look of different shoes or wish to have them utilized during kink or sex scenes, there are so many different ways to have your fetish fulfilled!

Intoxication

Posted on January 29, 2021 | by freakz

“Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls.”
― Anaïs Nin

Definition

The intoxication fetish involves the imbibing of drugs or alcohol during or before sexual intercourse. This kink should always be one that is consented to by both parties ahead of time, due to the impaired nature of judgement that can come from these substances. It is important to know if your partner is under the influence of any substances, and to know ahead of time before substances are taken that this type of play is consensually desired.

Safety Precautions

There are plenty of folks that get drunk or partake in drugs and then have sex with other people, but it’s always important that this is consensual. Finding trusted partners that will take drugs or drink with you and then partake in sexual play is important if this is your kink and should better not be done with strangers, especially ones that don’t know you’re intoxicated. If you are going to involve any sort of BDSM play with intoxication, it is best that the one performing any violent actions, wielding any tools or being in control is more on the side of sober than not. With any implements that can cause more damage to the body like knives, paddles, whips or floggers, it is always best that the wielder has all of their senses about them.

What To Do

This can be a dangerous fetish, due to the impairment of judgement caused by being intoxicated. It is best to perform this fetish with a partner, or partners, that you trust implicitly, and have already discussed the boundaries and limitations around what you wish to have done while under the influence. Don’t take this kink lightly, and you’ll be able to enjoy very pleasurable experiences while under the influence with consensual partners that have already agreed to the experience.

Impact Play

Posted on January 20, 2021 | by freakz

“Stripes that wound scour away evil, and strokes reach the innermost parts.”
-Proverbs 20:30

Definition

Impact play is defined as any activity that involves striking someone with either body parts or external implements. This kink can be performed on someone through hitting, flogging, punching, spanking, paddling, whipping, or by any number of ways in which a body can be struck. Impact play has many levels of intensity and how strong a form of this play is desired should be determined ahead of time.

The Fetish

There are a large number of tools and items that can be used in this fetish. A St. Andrew’s Cross is a common piece of BDSM furniture used to strap willing participants to, as are large O-rings, spanking horses (similar to gymnastics horses) and other forms of restraint. Restraints aren’t always used, but they are common with this kink so that the recipient of the impact doesn’t move during play. If the person being hit moves too much during impact play there is a chance that they may be struck accidentally in a more dangerous area than the one that was agreed upon. Spanking or striking a willing participant’s ass is a very common form of enacting this fetish, since that act is often associated with dominance or a form of penance. The buttocks are also a part of the body with fatty tissue, hence no injury will come to muscles or tendons during the scene.

What To Do

Impact play is an extremely common fetish, but not one that is always enacted properly. If you and your partner are exploring this together for the first time, it’s a good idea to look up videos or writings around good techniques for impact play. If you have someone using tools other than their hands, make sure they are familiar with the use of their implement so that the pain or bodily harm they cause is intentional and not detrimental to your body in a lasting fashion. There are also plenty of online groups about impact play and they will be able to field any questions you have if articles and videos aren’t enough.

Internal Cumshots

Posted on January 20, 2021 | by freakz

“She loses control over her body. Her every nerve ending screams in pleasure as his thick cock throbs inside of her, filling the void with warmth…”
-Vivien Valentine

Definition

Internal cumshots are a fetish revolving around having your sexual partner cum inside of you while you engage in intercourse. This can be achieved through vaginal or anal penetration, but anal play is recommended if you are trying to avoid impregnation and aren’t on birth control. For people with this kink, creampies increase the excitement of sexual contact and can even push the receiving party into an orgasm of their own.

The Fetish

This kink can involve deep penetration or just the tip of the penis inserted into either an ass or a vagina, depending on what level of feeling excites you the most. With deeper penetration the full length of the penis is into the orifice when ejaculation begins, and that depth often brings about a more intense orgasm for the recipient due to the level of intimacy. Using just the tip of the penis accentuates the visual element of the creampie, which might be part of the appeal for some people.

This fetish is more commonly practiced between sexual partners that don’t have sex with many other people or at least always use protection with their other partners. Cumming inside of another person is often considered one of the highest levels of sexual intimacy, and it’s that intimacy that often makes this such an intense fetish. The physical feeling does add to the orgasmic sensation of the kink as well, and for some may be the sole reason for it.

What To Do

There is a much higher level of STI transmission involved in sex without protection, so it is best to enact this fetish with long-term partners that get tested often or use protection with any other people they have intercourse with. Make sure you know the sexual practices of your partners and that they are aware of yours as well, in order to create the safest space to enact this kink. If you are able to get pregnant, make sure you use an alternate form of birth control or choose anal penetration when playing with internal cumshots, since condoms are obviously out of the question. With these precautions you can decrease any anxiety around this kink and fully enjoy the experience of a creampie without the worry that often surrounds it.

Imprisonment

Posted on January 20, 2021 | by freakz

“Most of us are imprisoned by something. We’re living in darkness until something flips on the switch.”
-Wynonna Judd

Definition

An imprisonment fetish is a fixation with being locked inside of any sort of cage, room, casket, or any other isolated space. This often has elements of consensual torture as well, possibly involving poking or prodding through cage bars, teasing, taunting, or belittling. Shame play is a common combination with the imprisonment kink.

The Fetish

People who are into imprisonment as a fetish often meet with other like-minded individuals that enjoy imprisoning others, to create a scene centered on the feeling of being caged and controlled. This is often accomplished with portable cages that are used for animals and can be moved easily from space to space, so that scenes of imprisonment can be played out in many places. If there is access to actual holding cells or if caskets are on hand, those are also within the realms of the imprisonment kink and are commonly used between individuals to play out this fetish.

What To Do

It’s important to remember that acting out this kink will relinquish any control you have over your freedom, unless you are in a cage that can be unlocked or undone from the inside, so you need to do this with individuals you trust. That being said, there are plenty of online groups where you can discuss different forms of imprisonment. When approaching interested parties either online or offline, make sure you can check their background through other people you trust. You can also explore this fetish further in public dungeon settings, which will give a greater sense of safety since you will have others around to watch what goes on. Remember to have a safe-word for when you are ready to be done and out of your imprisonment, especially if taunting you while imprisoned is part of your fetish.

Revving

Posted on January 12, 2021 | by freakz

“Just like the first breath of life, any engine must be triggered in order to turn it on.”
-Toba Beta

Definition

Revving as a kink revolves around someone revving an engine, also known as “pedal pushing” or “pedal pumping”. Apart from an attraction to the engine sound and vibration, it is commonly associated with a woman’s foot in high heels pushing down on a gas pedal and is depicted that way in a large number of images surrounding this fetish. Women’s bare feet pushing gas pedals is also a popular imagery for those with the revving kink. Women that participate in this fetish are often referred to as “gas pedal honeys” and can have a variety of different looks.

The Fetish

Revving is a kink that is often found among muscle car fanatics, due to the intensity of the sound that muscle car engines make. The sound of the car can sometimes kick off this fetish, but it can also involve having sex on a car while the engine is revving, or inside of the car. It isn’t limited to just the sound of a revving engine, because the power of the motor can be felt throughout the entirety of the car. This kink is often associated with the kinds of sounds and sensations that powerful cars provide.

What To Do

There are many avenues and a wide array of choices to explore to get this kink fulfilled, whether the focus of your fetish is engine revving or gas pedal beauties. There are tons of forums about muscle cars, as well as sites and clubs that are fixated on powerful engines that you can join. There are also several websites devoted to images of beautiful ladies in high heels pushing down on gas pedals. Finding a partner that already has a muscle car is going to be a good way for you to fulfill this fetish without having to find random partners. Having access to a muscle car that you know you’ll be to have fun on, in or around will allow you to pursue all aspects of this fetish as often as you want. If not, then you’ll be able to find plenty of willing participants at muscle car events or through online resources. Make sure they understand your kink ahead of time and you’ll be able to have as much excitement from the revving of their engine as possible.