“I once had a problem, so I tried group sex. Now I have a new problem – who to thank!”-Rodney Dangerfield
A foursome is a pretty explanatory term for group sex that involves four people. There are tons of different combinations of people that you can have a foursome with, more so than a threesome – since you have one extra participant! You can have two couples, which might be called swinging depending on what type of community you are in. You can have three girls and a guy, and the lucky dude will have his choice of all the ladies’ holes! There is also the possibility of a foursome with three guys and a girl, where surely all of her holes will get filled by cock. How perfect – three cocks means one each for her pussy, ass and mouth!
If you want to have a foursome then you may be wondering how the heck do you make this happen? You will need to first make sure you have enough confidence and swagger to organize such an affair. Don’t be shy – group sex is the prize at the end of this journey. Try going to a local sex party or find a swingers dating website to find people who might be open to this type of thing. Once you do that, keep in mind what you want to do in a foursome, and keep an eye out for the types of people you want to play with. All it takes is making a few fun friends and getting them together for an evening of sexy fun.
Making it Happen
If you invite a bunch of people over to your house for a foursome, you might have a little trouble getting the whole shindig started. You may want to simply jump into things but people usually need a little warm up. Make sure you have some snacks and entertainment available to get people in the mood. When the time is right, just suggest to go into the bedroom or maybe even set up a game of strip poker in order to heat things up!
“I think that I shall never see a poem as lovely as a hot-gushing, butt-cramping, gut hosing orgasm.”-Chuck Palahniuk
A forced orgasm happens when you put a high-powered vibrator up to someone’s pussy and then don’t remove it even after they have cum, causing them to cum uncontrollably and even to the point of discomfort. You will notice that most girls get really sensitive after they cum – this causes the multiple orgasm process to become unbearable after a while. But if a submissive girl is tied up with nowhere to go, there’s nothing she can do about her master’s will to make her cum over and over again.
If you want to experiment with this technique for putting your sub in their place, try starting with some basic bondage. Just tie your sweetie up to the bed using some scarves or tied in a spread eagle position. Then it is best to use a wand-style vibrator on them because those are the most powerful. Just put it straight up to their pussy and make sure it is in the right spot. Then sit back and watch them writhe with orgasm after orgasm. Make sure to have a unique safeword in place so that they can beg you to stop as part of the play, which is a big part of the fun!
Why Do It?
Multiple orgasms are a powerful thing. They can bring a female sub to new heights of pleasure. They can make their pussy so sensitive that a stiff breeze will bring on a new orgasm. It can make sex a whole lot of fun and it’s simply something unique and sexy to try out to bring a new dynamic into the bedroom. If you’ve been experimenting with BDSM, this is one to add to your toolbox.
“And forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet.”-Khalil Gibran
A footjob is a sexual act well-loved by foot fetishists. In a footjob you basically take your feet and rub them all over a cock. It helps if you lube them up a bit. Some people enjoy putting them together so that the arches are facing each other to make a foot “pussy” that can get fucked. Other people enjoy having a foot used on their pussy to get them off, or even having a few toes inserted into their holes to fill them up. In its most extreme cases a whole foot can get shoved inside of someone as long as their hole can fit it!
Most footjobs start off with feet rubbing. Just rub your feet up and down the cock, but first make sure that they are clean (unless your lover is into dirty soles, of course)! Once you start to really get into it, you can use your toes right on the head of the cock, varying the pressure to create excitement. Then you can lube up your feet and press them against the cock, rubbing up and down evenly to create a level fucking motion. This can easily bring a guy with a foot fetish to orgasm, and a foot fetishist girl that performs this will also think it feels good!
People with a foot fetish also love to lick and kiss feet. This isn’t considered a footjob but it could certainly be considered foot foreplay. If you’re on the other end of the affair, having your feet kissed and licked feels great! It might tickle a little bit, but that’s OK – some people enjoy the tickling sensation as well. There are even folks that try to fit a whole foot inside of their mouths, and others that enjoy nibbling on the toes.
“A fetish is a story masquerading as an object.”-Robert Stoller
Having a fetish usually means that you can’t get off unless you have your favored (or fetishized) object, body part or person in mind, or unless you perform a specific action that is highly arousing to you. Fetishes used to be considered psychological problems until very recently. No one knows quite how fetishes develop, and some fetishists feel they were just created that way, but many believe that experiences early on in life can help form them. Some more spiritual people think that fetishes can be related to powerful experiences in a past life. Whatever you believe, if you have a fetish, you have probably gone to great lengths to seek it out!
Examples of Fetishes
There are many different kinds of fetishes. Some of them have to do with clothing. You can have a fetish for a certain material, like latex, or for a specific garment, like a corset. You can also have a fetish for a body part. One of the most common ones is having a foot fetish. You can love bare feet, or even feet in shoes. There can be fetishes for muscles, for breasts, for asses, and even for inanimate objects. One woman even married the Eiffel Tower because she loved it so darn much! There is also a large fetish for stockings and underwear.
Find Your Fetish
When you have a fetish, you may at first feel alone. However, thanks to the internet that feeling will not last very long. Any cursory glance online will show you that there are many groups on the internet for just about any sexual interest. Even the more fringe fetishes that have less of a following have a group out there. You can easily find peers online who are into the same thing. Don’t forget Rule 34 of the internet: if you can think of it, porn of it exists. And if there’s not enough porn of your fetish out there…why not make some?
“True strength lies in submission.”-Henry Miller
A female slave is someone who has decided to give herself to her master, in a BDSM sense. It’s usually a very self-possessed woman who knows exactly what she wants. She has decided that the BDSM lifestyle is for her, and whether her dominant is a man or a woman, she has agreed to follow certain rules or agreements that they have both agreed upon to make the relationship work. This is usually filed under a 24/7 relationship, but it can also be a playtime fling or anything really. A woman can submit for as long as she wants to.
Where To Start
If you want to play at being a female slave, the place to start is with the rules. Set out what you and your partner want the rules to be – whether it’s going to be for a night, a weekend or forever. Some ideas include having slave positions for her to sit in whenever you say a certain cue. Another rule could be that she has to have her mouth open for oral pleasure whenever you desire. There can also be domestic aspects to this type of play, meaning that she might have to cook you dinner by a certain time or massage your feet when you come home from work.
Just because a woman is your BDSM slave does not mean that you can just do whatever you want with her, even if that is your agreement. As the Dom, you have a big responsibility to keep her safe and make sure she is well taken care of. Of course this can include proper punishments and lots of kinky fun, but you must make sure to not neglect your toy. After all, no one likes a broken toy! Make sure that your slave is happy and healthy, and your relationship will go far.
“The fifties – they seem to have taken place on a sunny afternoon that asked nothing of you except a drifting belief in the moment and its power to satisfy.”-Elizabeth Hardwick
The 1950s were a time when things seemed idyllic. The sitcoms of the era show perfect families with put-together wives who worked hard to serve their families in proper outfits complete with girdles and stockings. They always had a roast on the table and their hair done perfectly. The fashions of the era were sexy yet modest, and the women were like mythical creatures who were dedicated to their husbands’ happiness. This has caused some people of this modern era, nearly 70 years later, to fetishize the 1950s and live their lives dedicated to recreating the ideal of a woman who serves the home and dresses in the style of the era.
If you’re new to this fetish, you’re not going to get your wife to quit her job and wear poofy skirts right away! But it can be fun to play one night a week, especially if you are into BDSM and enjoy a dom/sub relationship, which is what most people like about this ever more popular fetish. You can easily get 1950s style outfits at a thrift store or at any rockabilly type of shop online, and it can be fun to have your female partner cook you a dinner and rub your feet after work as a sign of her subservience. In this fetish, hard sex or fetish play might not even present itself at all, as the couple gets a sexual thrill out of preserving this traditional type of relationship in which the woman serves the husband at his every whim.
Spice it Up
For those who aren’t necessarily into preserving the old way of life, but who still find girdles and vintage hairstyles exciting, you can emulate images of the day which include cute girls getting spanked in their vintage style lingerie, immaculate red lipstick wrapped around a cock in a blow job session, or simply making out in your car at the local look-out point. While these wouldn’t be traditionally part of the 1950s household fetish, it’s a way to draw inspiration from this unique play style to spice up your regular sex life.
“Blessed are the flexible for they will not be bent out of shape.”-Michael McGriffy, MD
Flexibility is a highly desirable trait in a sex partner because they will be able to do outrageous sexual positions like putting their legs behind their head or getting fucked in a full split. Girls who are flexible and get into porn are usually pretty successful, and it doesn’t hurt that they are usually former gymnasts or cheerleaders. Flexibility is certainly a sign of health and vitality, and the most flexible girls are usually the ones between the ages of 18 and 22, college cuties who have been working on their limbs through sports for a long while.
If you want to see a flexible chick in some porn movies, all you have to do is check out girls who are known to be very limber. Sensi Pearl is a girl who doesn’t make porn movies any longer, but when she did, she was very flexible due to her training as a dancer. She could move into any position to make any kind of dream sex possible. Luckily there are still plenty of flexible porn of her out there. Madison Scott is another girl who was very flexible during her time in the biz due to her experience with dancing. She can be seen posing in many strenuous positions! There is also Mia Malkova who is so flexible she can get fucked in yoga poses!
How to Become Flexible
If you’re not flexible right now, don’t despair, there are things you can do to become more flexible. Of course you can just do some basic stretching to get your muscles to loosen up, but if you want to do something more formal, yoga is a great practice to stretch out your limbs and get them to go into outrageous positions. It does take a lot of work and time, but it can definitely help to make you looser for the bedroom.
“I’ve learned women are better streakers.”-Steve Spurrier
Flashing is when you go wild and decide to show someone a naughty part of your body. Usually it is done in a context or place where you are absolutely not supposed to do that. You might flash your boyfriend a quick slip of the nip at the dinner table, or unbutton your pants to flash someone on your daily commute (not recommended.) Flashing that is more extreme is also often referred to as streaking. This is when you go to a major event like a sporting event or show in an arena and you run across the spot where everyone is looking with your clothes off! You can get arrested for streaking and flashing, so make sure you do it only in private spaces with people who are excited about it if you want to avoid getting into trouble.
So, how can you work this risqué idea into your sex life if there is the risk of getting caught? Well, there are quite a few things you can do to get your exhibitionism on. You can always flash your lover at home when they get home from work to initiate some sexy time. In addition, you can also flash people if you are at a sexy party, but remember – look but don’t touch without permission, even if someone is flashing you!
There are all different kinds of flashing. One kind is known as mooning and it is when you pull down your pants and stick your butt out at someone. A girl can also flash her tits at anyone she pleases, and when it is Mardi Gras in New Orleans if you do that you will get a whole bunch of beads thrown your way! Gals can also flash their pussies, and most guys who are flashers tend to choose to flash their dick.
“I do recommend it for all… put on a pair of fishnet stockings and find your inner sexiness!”-Nia Vardalos
Fishnet stockings are a special type of legwear that are often considered to be extra slutty. They have a crisscrossed pattern that is made from thread, and they look really hot! You can have fishnet thigh highs, full stockings or even a body-stocking. Sometimes they even make shirts or dresses out of fishnet material. Fishnet creates a diamond design and it is also usually available in a lot of colors. Besides being worn by sexy people, they are also sometimes worn by Emo and punk people, and the fishnet pattern is also a popular one for certain fitness apparel on a small scale, because it can help to trap warmth making for some toasty garments.
Fishnet stockings and apparel have been around for a while, but it is hard to say exactly when they appeared. There is a fable by Aesop about a woman who solves a complex riddle by wrapping herself up in a fisherman’s net. Some say that fishnets started with exotic dancers around the turn of the 20th century, but photos reveal that striped and black stockings were more the fashion. They truly started to become more popular in the 1920s, because stretchy stockings hadn’t been invented yet and fishnets allowed more movement for active flappers! Since then they have always been a symbol of people who live a fun and free lifestyle.
Where to Get Them
If you want to have fishnets in your collection, you can go to any store, really. You can certainly find them at lingerie and sexy stores, but a lot of the time you can even find them at your local corner store, in the aisle where regular stockings are sold. However, if you want to see the greatest amount of variety, then you should definitely look online.
“Sometimes, reaching out and taking someone’s hand is the beginning of a journey.”-Vera Nazarian
Fingering is a sexual act done by a lot of people as a form of foreplay. It basically involves sticking your fingers in someone’s pussy or asshole in order to give them pleasure. How helpful that our fingers were designed by some higher power, evolution or natural selection (depending on what you believe) in the perfect shape for phallic pleasure! Some people like to stick a few fingers in any hole, while others enjoy working up to a whole entire fist! Fingering is one of the most basic sex acts around, appropriate for anyone from a sex novice to a total slut.
How To Finger
Learning how to finger is really easy. Start with one finger – usually the pointer or middle finger – and stick it in! If you are planning to finger someone’s ass, you should definitely use lube. If you’re aiming for the pussy, if your partner is sufficiently wet then they might not need any. After you’re in, just move it around until you hear your partner moaning really loud. Of course you can also ask them what feels good and that will help you get onto the right track too. Most women enjoy a finger-fucking with a come hither motion in their pussy for g-spot stimulation, as do men in the ass for prostate stimulation.
Rule number one for fingering is to trim your fingernails. Any sharp ones can cause some scratching and that is not fun. If you do have long fingernails that you don’t want to trim, you should put a cotton ball in the tip of a latex or nitrile glove and then stick your finger in. This will help you to avoid scratching the delicate membranes of your lover’s holes!