“Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls.”

― Anaïs Nin


The intoxication fetish involves the imbibing of drugs or alcohol during or before sexual intercourse. This kink should always be one that is consented to by both parties ahead of time, due to the impaired nature of judgement that can come from these substances. It is important to know if your partner is under the influence of any substances, and to know ahead of time before substances are taken that this type of play is consensually desired.

Safety Precautions

There are plenty of folks that get drunk or partake in drugs and then have sex with other people, but it’s always important that this is consensual. Finding trusted partners that will take drugs or drink with you and then partake in sexual play is important if this is your kink and should better not be done with strangers, especially ones that don’t know you’re intoxicated. If you are going to involve any sort of BDSM play with intoxication, it is best that the one performing any violent actions, wielding any tools or being in control is more on the side of sober than not. With any implements that can cause more damage to the body like knives, paddles, whips or floggers, it is always best that the wielder has all of their senses about them.

What To Do

This can be a dangerous fetish, due to the impairment of judgement caused by being intoxicated. It is best to perform this fetish with a partner, or partners, that you trust implicitly, and have already discussed the boundaries and limitations around what you wish to have done while under the influence. Don’t take this kink lightly, and you’ll be able to enjoy very pleasurable experiences while under the influence with consensual partners that have already agreed to the experience.

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