“Sometimes, reaching out and taking someone’s hand is the beginning of a journey.”
-Vera Nazarian
Definition
Fingering is a sexual act done by a lot of people as a form of foreplay. It basically involves sticking your fingers in someone’s pussy or asshole in order to give them pleasure. How helpful that our fingers were designed by some higher power, evolution or natural selection (depending on what you believe) in the perfect shape for phallic pleasure! Some people like to stick a few fingers in any hole, while others enjoy working up to a whole entire fist! Fingering is one of the most basic sex acts around, appropriate for anyone from a sex novice to a total slut.
How To Finger
Learning how to finger is really easy. Start with one finger – usually the pointer or middle finger – and stick it in! If you are planning to finger someone’s ass, you should definitely use lube. If you’re aiming for the pussy, if your partner is sufficiently wet then they might not need any. After you’re in, just move it around until you hear your partner moaning really loud. Of course you can also ask them what feels good and that will help you get onto the right track too. Most women enjoy a finger-fucking with a come hither motion in their pussy for g-spot stimulation, as do men in the ass for prostate stimulation.
Fingering Etiquette
Rule number one for fingering is to trim your fingernails. Any sharp ones can cause some scratching and that is not fun. If you do have long fingernails that you don’t want to trim, you should put a cotton ball in the tip of a latex or nitrile glove and then stick your finger in. This will help you to avoid scratching the delicate membranes of your lover’s holes!