“Tomorrow, you might get a phone call about something wonderful.”
-Regina Spektor
Definition
Phone sex is the art of picking up the phone to speak with someone by voice and using nothing beyond your shared imagination and audio interactions to reach orgasms together. Verbally describing everything you wish you could do to that person, in person while mutually masturbating to the sounds and creativity of your partner. Phone sex is perfect for couples that are long distances away from each other – whether permanently or short term, and there are some people who have a special affinity for dirty talk on the phone even if they live close to their favorite freak!
Phone Sex Tips
Newbies to phone sex often worry that they won’t know what to say. It’s normal to think this way, but it’s actually quite easy once you get the ball rolling. When you first try phone sex, make the build up slow and intense. The line “what are you wearing,” while it might sound cheesy, is actually a perfect one to try. Once you’ve got things hot and heavy, be sure to be very descriptive. Tell your partner exactly what position they are in and how hard or soft you’re doing whatever activity it is that you’re doing. Be sure to make lots of hot noises when you cum or yell out “I’m coming!” so your partner knows how hot they’re making you.
Visuals
In this modern age, phone sex has become about a lot more than just talking on the phone. You can always text your lover a hot photo to get them in the mood before you dial up their number for a hot ring. If you want even more visuals, you can send pictures during the phone sex session to prove that you’re really doing what you say you’re doing. For the ultimate thrill, hop on your favorite camera chat app and do face to face live sex! The key is being prepared ahead of time enough to avoid fumbling through the conversation without becoming so over prepared that what you say feels stale or contrived. Practice makes perfect, and that phone in your pocket may soon be the sexiest item in your life!