“A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.”
-Barbara Bush
Definition
Sixty Nine is a special sex position in which two partners can both give each other oral sex. According to the author Jonathan Safran Foer in his book Everything Is Illuminated, it was invented in 1969 but that’s not true at all. It was probably invented in the beginning of time as soon as people realized what pleasure people could get from putting their mouths on each other’s genitalia. It’s basically when one person goes on top of the other to suck their genitals, and they place their own genitals over the other person’s face for easy pleasure too.
The Reality
69 is a super hot fantasy but the reality is that some people have a hard time giving pleasure and getting pleasure at the same time. Some people simply can’t come as easily when they are focused on giving a blowjob or oral to their partner, and that’s ok. They can still enjoy the 69 but if you’re expecting it to be automatically orgasmic, you may be disappointed. If you think of it more as a super hot foreplay then you may enjoy it a bit more because there will be less pressure and expectation of what is supposed to happen.
Bringing it Up
If you’ve never done 69 before but you want to try it now, bringing it up to your partner is actually pretty easy. If you can’t describe it to them there are lots of videos showing you what it is all about, and there are also plenty of descriptions of it online to give you inspiration. It’s a mutually beneficial thing which is why so many people like it. A lot of people who get off on giving pleasure and getting it too think 69 is just the tops.