Wet And Messy (WAM)

“Sex is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other.”

-Marquis de Sade


The wet and messy fetish involves becoming aroused by getting wet and messy by things other than bodily fluids, and is also known as “sploshing”. This kink also includes food that makes people messy.

The Fetish

You might have this fetish if you find arousal when you, or others, become wet and messy from fluids that have nothing to do with someone’s body. This can relate to wet t-shirt contests, food fights, or any other situation where you get messy by fluids and substances that can be poured or put on you. Cake sitting could fall under this fetish as well, mainly if you are the one sitting on the cake. There are a lot of ways to fulfill WAM, since the amount of substances that aren’t bodily fluids and can be used to get you wet and messy is vast.

What To Do

Sourcing online for people that will want to get you wet and messy isn’t going to be that difficult. There are plenty of people out there that will gladly pour different substances on you, especially if that’s their version of this kink. Make sure you agree upon what fluids you’re comfortable having poured on you ahead of time, and it’s good to institute a safe-word as well for when you’re ready for them to stop. This is going to be a fairly easy kink to fulfill, because getting people messy covers many different fetishes.

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